February 7, 2022
Mediation
One of the common questions I hear from my clients is ‘what documents do you need for family mediation?’. Here is a guide to the documents you might bring to family mediation that will help you get the most out of your family mediation session. Priorities & Objective To help you focus on your goals […]
January 27, 2022
Mediation
If you’re heading into mediation with your ex soon you might be making a list of things to discuss in divorce mediation. Here’s a list of 8 key things you can discuss in your divorce mediation session. 8 Key Things To Discuss In Divorce Mediation Division Of Property & Debts Who gets what is often […]
January 11, 2022
Mediation
Are you wondering how to find a good divorce mediator? Here are some things to look out for when you’re looking to hire a divorce mediator, whether you’re in Perth or across Australia. How to Find a Good Divorce Mediator in Australia Family Dispute Resolution Register The easiest way to find a divorce mediator is […]
December 21, 2021
Separation & Divorce
If you’re going through a separation, you might want to know how your assets and liabilities will be divided in a divorce in Australia. Are assets divided as part of the divorce process? Although part of the same package, there is a fundamental difference between finalising your divorce and finalising your property settlement. A divorce […]
December 9, 2021
Mediation
It’s not uncommon to hear the question ‘can I refuse divorce mediation?’ when people first contact me to discuss their divorce or separation. Let’s explore whether you can refuse divorce mediation and what the consequences may be. Can I Refuse Divorce Mediation? You most certainly can refuse to attend divorce mediation (or some other form […]
November 23, 2021
Separation & Divorce
Grey divorce is a term that is used to describe couples who separate after 50 and has been on the rise in the last couple of decades. The Australian Bureau of Statistics released data recently which shows the median age of divorce for males in 2020 was 45.6 years (up from 41.4 years in 2000) […]
November 10, 2021
Mediation
I am often asked what happens if divorce mediation fails? While it does not happen often, there are circumstances where an agreement cannot be reached at mediation or a party refuses to mediate at all. Here’s what you need to know when divorce mediation fails. The Divorce Mediation Process If there is a genuine desire […]
October 28, 2021
Relationships
Communication with your ex can be a tricky path to navigate, so here are 8 simple and effective tips for communication after divorce. 8 Tips For Communication After Divorce Tip 1 – Keep Things Open It’s fairly common after any divorce for ex-spouses to find themselves experiencing difficulties communicating with each other without getting into […]
October 12, 2021
Separation & Divorce
Are you wondering how you will rebuild your finances after divorce? In many divorces, once the dust has settled, the legal bills have been paid and emotions begin to subside, there is often a common outcome – lower income and a change to your lifestyle. Moving to just one income can be challenging to say […]
September 24, 2021
Mediation
In this blog, I’ll share the 5 most common family law mediation questions I get and my answers to them. 5 Common Family Law Mediation Questions Question 1 – How Do I Get My Ex To Agree To Mediate? In an ideal world, convincing your ex to mediate should be the easiest part of your […]
September 9, 2021
Separation & Divorce
Having to cope with a divorce that you don’t want can seem insurmountable. I’ve put together some tips gleaned over the years as someone who has been through a divorce myself, as well as a family mediation specialist in Perth. Here are my tips on how to cope with a divorce when you don’t want […]
August 27, 2021
Separation & Divorce
When you’re in the middle of a separation or divorce, it can be easy to slip into a negative mindset and develop habits that get you stuck in rut. But making an effort to develop positive habits can ensure that you move on quickly and happily. Here are some key positive habits to develop when […]
August 10, 2021
Separation & Divorce
When it comes to how to get through grief during your divorce, there’s no set path you can take. Each person grieves differently and takes a different amount of time to work through their stages of grief. However, there are some things you can do to help you along the process. Here are some top […]
July 21, 2021
Relationships
Relationships end for a multitude of reasons but there are some universally common reasons relationships fail. 6 Common Reasons Relationships Fail Lack Of Trust Trust is one of the hardest things to earn and one of the easiest to lose. It can take years to develop trust in any loving relationship, in both emotional and […]
July 21, 2021
Separation & Divorce
One of the first things you need to consider after separation is how your finances are going to change. We’ve put together a short guide on how to split your finances when you get divorced. Separate Your Banks Accounts If you had joint accounts while together, closing them and opening your own accounts should be […]
June 30, 2021
Children
How much should you share with your kids about your divorce? It’s not an easy question to answer. But one thing is for sure – ensuring you deliver an age-appropriate message to your children is the key to helping them process the news. Ian shares his top tips on what to share (and what not […]
June 15, 2021
Separation & Divorce
Let’s face it – staying off social media is pretty difficult in this day and age. And while we do spend a lot of time on sites like Facebook, Instagram & TikTok, there are some key things you need to be aware of when it comes to your divorce and social media. We’ve put together […]
May 29, 2021
Children
If you’re looking for tips to effectively co-parent after divorce, you’ve come to the right place. As an accredited family mediator in Perth, many of the couples I work with are navigating co-parenting following a relationship breakdown. Here are my tips on how to effectively co-parent after divorce. Tips To Effectively Co-Parent After Divorce Tip […]
The process was so much quicker and easier than I anticipated – after everything I have heard about lawyers! And it was re-assuring for me to know how much it was going to cost at the start, not when it was all over. Thanks, Ian. I’d recommend you to anyone who wants a solution seeker and quick results.
— Bree F, Fremantle WA
Ian, your patience and persistence really helped us get to an agreement I thought we could never reach. I’d recommend you to anyone who wants to get family issues resolved as painlessly as possible.
— Michael G, Safety Bay WA
Thank you once more for your kindness, wisdom and counsel.
— Georgie N, Wangara WA
Ian worked hard to enable us to reach an agreement. He was always happy to discuss and explain everything we needed.
— Cathy & Steve, Subiaco WA